ALL ABOUT SEXTING - THE ULTIMATE GUIDE

How to sext - The ultimate guide to sexting.

Sexting might be one of those topics you simply don't talk to anybody about, it still has this sense of taboo around it, but don't worry, we've got you covered with this ultimate guide on sexting.

Sex educator and founder of the largely successful sex educational platform: Passion By Kait, Kait Scalisi had this statement to say: “Sexting is the perfect foreplay,” Kait added: “It’s a fun, flirty way to stay connected with your partner. It keeps sex on your brain all day and adds a little adventure, which re-creates that loving feeling from early in your relationship.”

Here are our top tips to get you started and comfortable with sexting:

• Timing Is Key

Although being spontaneous is always a fantastic trait to keep things fresh and spicey, you always want to keep in mind where your partner is and what they might be doing before you send them a sexy picture or naughty text. Imagine you received a nude selfie together with an explicit text message while you were showing your family some photos on your mobile device of your past holiday. How bad would that be?

Be sure to casually chat beforehand, understand how your partner is feeling and don't rush into it. That brings us to our next point:

• Take It Slow

A lot of the fun of sexting lies within the build-up. Don't jump immediately into fully nude pics and explicitly detailed wording. Keep in mind that just because you're turned on, doesn't mean that your partner is automatically feeling the same as you do. Start off with a bit of flirting, this will, first of all, break the ice, and initiate the conversation.

After all, sexting is fun, exhilarating and ultimately brings a couple closer together. Enjoy it, make it last and take it in stages, in other words, don't rush it.

• You Are Playing A Role - Remember That

Now, this doesn't necessarily mean that you have to engage in "role-playing" where you play the naughty sexy nurse and your partner the innocent patient. But rather in the sense that you two are not physically engaging in physical sex, but rather digitally. Sex is a two-way street, and so is sexting. Let your partner explore their sexuality, fantasies and desires. Always be a listener and get creative as you continue.

• Know Your Limits & Stay Within Your Comfort Zone

Sexting between you and your partner can be a fun and intimate experience, but it can go horribly wrong very quickly, but don't let that scare you. You have to know your limits and you, your partners' as well.

That shouldn't mean you should not explore and try new things either, there is a fine line between exploring and stepping over your personal limits.

• Get Clued Up On Your Emoji Knowledge

Sexting is all about setting the mood and expressing yourself to the best of your ability and Emoji's are a fantastic tool to help you do just that. The correct combination of Emoji's can really escalate your level of detail and expression in your sexting messages.

Take a look at these for some inspiration:

1. Eggplant: Penis
2. Peace Sign: Vagina
3. Peach: Butt
4. OK Hand: Anal Sex
5. Pointed Finger: Fingering
6. Taco: Vagina
7. Hot Dog: Penis
8. Sweat Droplets: Orgasm
9. OK Hand + Pointed Finger - "Let's have penetrative sex."
10. Banana + Donut - "In the mood for some cheeky anal sex?"
11. Tongue + Taco + Sweat Droplets - "I am going to go down on you until you come."
12. Lips + Eggplant + Fireworks - "I am going to go down on you until you come."
13. Waving Hand + Peach + Smiling Face with Horns - "I'm going to give you a spanking and feel very naughty about it."
14. Admission Ticket + Woman Dancing + Eyes - "I would very much appreciate a striptease performance."
15. Tongue + Peach + Shocked Face with Exploding Head - "I am going to lick your butt and it will blow your mind."
16. Snake + Tulip - "I want to slither inside your innocent bloom."
17. Baguette + Honey Pot - "I want to put my penis into your sweet vagina."
18. Heart + Bone - "I love your penis," or, alternatively, "I'd love to bone."

• Use Sexting To Your Advantage

Sex itself can be very nerve-wracking at times, especially in newer relationships, sexting is a great way to explore and learn about each other's sexual desires and even limitations as opposed to having your partner right there physically with you. Perhaps you don't have the confidence or the right wording to start up that conversation right there on the spot. Whereby in sexting you have a few moments to word your sentences and think about what you want to say beforehand. So use sexting to your advantage!

• Don't Forget About The Technology You Have At Your Disposal

Lastly, you have a great piece of technology in your hands when you are sexting, don't limit yourself to just text and photos. You have other options to get spicy, sexy and creative with such as:

1. Voice Recording
2. Slowmotion Video
3. Filters
4. Background Superimposing (Green Screen effects)
5. Self Timer Photos
6. Background Music
7. Use Earphones As Remote Shutter Button
8. Underwater/waterproof cellphone cases

The idea of sexting can leave you with mixed feelings, but always remember that you hold the power to dictate where it goes and remember to have fun with it and to delete your images/content or secure them afterwards!

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